Both. And putting away. So that I will not have to nag other people to do the other bit until I give up and do it myself anyway, so that no-one will complain that I have done either the washing or the drying or the putting away all wrong, and so that I will not have to complain that other people have done the putting away all wrong*.

Conclusion: territorial kitchen wars resound down the generations.

*I am not fussy about other people's washing or drying abilities as long as they do it before a week on Thursday when there are no plates or saucepans left, but I do object to things never being put away in the same place twice so I can't find anything